How to Survive Your Exams

Worried about exams

Somehow, I am still awake despite getting up at 5.30am this morning to take the Trader Train into the City and get some early morning cramming done before my 10am Galaxy Dynamics exam. It was brutal. So much for all that.

To be honest, even if I end up failing some or all of my five brutal astrophysics exams, this year was different from last year in one respect: I didn’t lose my sanity. That alone makes me consider it somewhat of a success.

I know a lot of people are still in the exam trenches, so I thought I would post some post-mortem thoughts and tips that might prove helpful to someone somewhere. After all, I already have two degrees and have sat more exams that probably anyone else I know. For whatever that’s worth. Notice that I can’t tell you have to ace your exams and get straight As, especially since there are better books for that (recommended: How to Become a Straight A Student. This is merely going to be about sanity and survival.

* Turn your damn computer off. And your phone. If you really have to use the computer, turn off your wifi or use a blocker like Antisocial. Personally, I get nothing done unless I actually take my laptop off my desk and hide it under my pillow.

* Similarly, clear your desk of extraneous crap and distractions. Or, even better, seek refuge in a proper quiet academic library where you are forced to stare at your work and nothing else for hours on end. Get used to your fortress of solitude for a few weeks. It will be over soon.

* The most important advice I have for you is to make your work count. Aim for quality studying, not quantity. It isn’t about the number of hours you spent, but what you spent them on. Five hours deep in concentration over past exam papers is time well spent, five hours waffling over how boring your notes are and checking Facebook are not. Your exam is not going to be about facebook. Or celebrity gossip.

* Also just as importantly, when you work this hard (assuming you aren’t slacking off), you need to take breaks. Your brain gets fatigued after a while, so when your eyes are glazing over from information overload (not boredom), get up and have a cup of tea or something.

* Equally, a person can only do so many productive hours of work per day. Make them count. But also don’t try and study for hours on end and think that you can stay focused or productive. Everyone has their limit, respect it. Once you hit the wall, get up and do something else for a while, or even call it a day. You can build your endurance up: I started at 2 hours a day and built up to about 6 or 7 hours a day of solid work. But after I did those hours, I went downstairs and watched crap telly the rest of the evening and then went to bed knowing that I did all I could do that day. No one can do this 24/7. Give yourself a break.

* Draw up a loose schedule. Lay your exam dates out and then schedule out any distractions or avoidable hassle. Count on doing nothing 48 hours before an exam except cramming and plan accordingly.

* If you study to music, don’t let the selection of the music distract you into playing DJ and wasting time. I just spent a month listening to Autechre’s Amber on repeat. This stopped me from waffling over music selections. I have also used Soma FM’s Drone Zone extensively for this purpose.

* Don’t try and multi-task. Sometimes you can’t avoid having to revise across multiple subjects at once, but if you can help it, try and sink into only one subject per day. It takes a lot of time getting your brain spinning up to a subject, so it is best not to context switch too often.

* Use the Pomodoro Technique to get started with revision when it feels too overwhelming to even start. Once I got into the swing of things, I stopped using it and instead took breaks roughly every hour or so. At a certain point, the structure of Pomodoro itself can be distracting rather than motivating. You’ll know you hit this point when the timer goes off and you’re annoyed because you are still working. Lose the timer and keep working once you hit your flow.

* Just reading notes does not work for me. If I write it down, though, I am likely to remember it. Draw up skeleton exam revision notes for each subject. Then solve as many past problems as you can get your hands on. In the course of those practice problems, you’ll uncover any gaps in your knowledge. When you run across something that you should remember, make a flash card for it. Flash cards are amaze at getting you to memorise stuff — but be aware you only store it in short term memory so be sure and go through them just before the exam.

* Buy in lots of ready meals and soups or whatever. Try not to each too much crap, but don’t waste precious time or energy on cooking. Just heat something up and take a brain break in front of the telly and relax instead. You’ll need lots of snacks, but seriously try to avoid overloading on sugar because it will cause the brain fatigue to set in all the more quickly. Try some fruit, nutty or protein bars, pretzels, etc.

* Be kind to your back. Almost every seriously nerdy student I’ve known gets back issues by the end of exams. I myself end up with this weird sort of whiplash in my neck. When I take breaks, I crack my back out by lying flat on the floor with my knees bent (it audibly clunks into place, disconcerting). I also do some downward dogs and some supermans to try and keep some strength in my back and core muscles to try and keep myself relatively intact.

* Before the day of the exam, seriously, lay out your clothes and pack up your notes and stuff in your bag the night before so you don’t wake up to a frantic mess. Also, leave yourself plenty of time to get to the exam early. Especially in London, when the trains, tubes, etc. are always breaking, I try and get there around 1-2 hours early. The bonus is that I then use that time to sit in a cafe and go over my notes and flash cards one more time.

* Try and take one day off a week. Or at least half a day. You have to do your laundry sometime, right? I always took the afternoons after exams off to decompress and degauss my brain. If I have the luxury of time, I will also take the day after off.

* When you get that panicky superstressy feeling, give meditation a go. Or at least just give yourself ten minutes with a cup of tea in the sun (if you have any) to try and think about the birds, the sky, trees, etc. Nothing is so bad that you can’t take ten minutes to catch your breath.

* If all else fails, remember that this too shall pass.

Related post: Getting My Study On

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Arm Soirée

My exams are over at last! As a treat, Mr Man got me a friend for my Love Bracelet: an Hermes Rivale. Not quite an arm party (I think a pile of bracelets is OTT), but a post-exam arm soirée is just fine! J’adore!

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Packing for NYC: Hot time, summer in the city

Pretty much the first thing I am going to do after my exams is get my passports out and start packing my bags. A body simply cannot sit here and put up with this rubbish weather, so I’m doing what any reasonable girl would do and hitching a lift to NYC for some much needed sun and warmer temperatures.

The question? What to pack, of course!

Packing for New York
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I’ve been waffling over this pinboard for a month while nebulous plans repeatedly vaporised and coalesced. When I first started thinking about it, the plan was to just go for a weekend or so. Apparently I am now going to holed up in Manhattan for over a week, so my packing dilemma has grown a bit.

Nonetheless, I love summer in NYC, and I’ve learned through trial and error what works for me:

* Light colours. The cliche way to blend into Manhattan is to wear black. I’ll do that in winter, but in summer I wear lots of white and grey and pastels. It just looks and feels cooler, and I actually get lots of compliments. I’ll throw in a black dress as a concession, but otherwise I’ll opt for crisper, lighter colours.

* I don’t take heels. As much as I’d love to glam it up, they waste space in my suitcase because I never actually wear them. I walk everywhere and so wear nothing but flats. My silver sandals are slightly swankier option for night, and they will look smashing with my new white dress, especially if I clash them with my gold Michael Kors Berkley clutch.

* City shorts are indispensible! It can get so lusciously hot and sticky, so city shorts are a good way to keep cool and classy. I will take both black and white, but I tend to wear the white more since they just feel a bit more crisp and summery, especially when paired with nautical stripes.

* My mint jeans are going to see a lot of wear — last year I wore my white ones around town loads of times, so the mint will just raise the game even more. Light coloured jeans are much easier to keep cool in than normal denim.

* I’ll be taking my featherweight cashmere cardi, because you never be sure about chilly nights, or even worse, overenthusiastic aircon.

* Big sunnies! Because jetlag can be rough and make you look haggard in the afternoons, and sunglasses are a million times more fabulous than undereye spackling. And the skies are so bright and blue over NYC!

* A versatile bag. I take one that doesn’t scream tacky tourist, but is big enough to hold my camera, umbrella, bottle of water, etc. Longchamp Le Pliages are great for shopping, also.

* Great accessories for that extra something special: sparkly earrings, a scarf, or a skinny belt will help keep me from getting bored of living out of a suitcase. Or if they don’t…there’s always Fifth Avenue!

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Three Things

Bokeh disco holographic glitter nails

Three things before I jump out of bed and get to studying:

My current manicure (shown above): black holographic glitter nails. I *heart* Topshop nail lacquers!

A tasty study treat: Apple + amalou (sort of like Moroccan peanut butter: almond/argan oil/honey spread)

Catching up with old husbands/friends in a rare day of sunshine over lamb burgers and dark chocolate gelato from Rococo at the Real Food Market

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Linky Goodness

Calgon, Take Me Away!

I have an exam tomorrow and my brain is fried so I am taking a quick before-bed break to post this backlog of linkage I have had building up in my evernotes. Hopefully more substantial content will be coming soon in 1.5 weeks once my exams are done, but in the meantime…

Literary paint chips (and sequel) from the Paris Review, like Farrow & Ball with cultural references. The greens seem particularly poignant.

Want to lose weight or stay slim? An apple a day might be the answer after all.

Advice almost written for me from Dear Sugar: Write Like A Mofo.

After indulging in my weekly episode of Revenge (aren’t you as obsessed as I am?? why not?!), I love reading these commentaries from Lily Sparks. So deliciously biting!

A Guardian profile piece on Jenna Lyons, Ms J. Crew herself. Contains interesting UK developments.

A Woman’s Story about being one of the very first women programmers ever.

Paleo vs. Vegan: fight!

Mr Man showed me this link about rich Americans queueing up in Switzerland to give up their citizenship. Why? Because the US is virtually the only country that taxes its ex-patriates, and holding a US passport could incur a huge tax bill. I have raged against this for years (despite never having near enough money to take a hit). Note to self: file US tax return before end of month. Sigh.

Married but living separately? It didn’t work for Frida and Diego, but it is working for Tim Burton and Helena Bonham-Carter…and apparently they aren’t alone. Except they are. Bliss?

A.A. Gill tells the world how London really is. Because American tourists are so quaint, aren’t they?

Yet another cranky Northerner whinging about how awesome London is. “The nation is collapsing in on London.” Oh my.

Speaking of the awesomeness of London, I just watched this great documentary: The Tallest Tower: Building the Shard. If you are into skyscrapers at all like me, check out the sheer hubris and insanity that went into such a massive project. I cannot wait to go up to the observation deck!

A parody of EL James’ Fifty Shades series has been written: Fifty Shames of Earl Grey. The title alone!!

Are you as addicted to Instagram as I am? Here’s Gala Darling’s guide on 10 ways to make your instagrams pop. Of course this involves editing and filters so purists out there should avert thine eyes.

I wish I were as put-together as Tavi Gevinson is when I was 16. Actually, I wish I was that put-together even now!

OK! Good night!

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Three Things

Three quick things that have caught my fancy:


This J.Crew dress is killing me. I dream about it + some nice weather. Dream on!


Sliimy’s cover of Womanizer — the Britney Spears original has been earworming itself into my head for days now, but this cover is so fabulous it just might replace it.


Not that I have any time to read right now, but I am feeding my Downton Abbey withdrawal with The Uninvited Guests by Sadie Jones.

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I solemnly swear that I have been up to no good.

VIP area in da club last night. Let’s call this a “study break”, shall we?

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Anniversary: Stripey Dress

Yesterday was my first exam…but more importantly it was the third anniversary of my first date with Mr Man. He took me to Galvin at Windows to celebrate and it was really nice.

Here’s the view from the 28th floor:

I finally got to wear this great stripey dress for the first time (yes, I decapitated myself):

Dress: Dorothy Perkins (yay for tall sizes!)
Cardi: Uniqlo cashmere
Clutch: Michael Kors Berkley
Shoes: Cole Haan Air Violet Ox
Necklace: Stella & Dot

OK, back to revision!

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Catfish Alley: A Letter Home

A couple of months ago, I wrote a column about life abroad for Catfish Alley, the local magazine back home in Mississippi. Well, it is finally out on the news stands! My copy of the latest issue is currently in transit across the Atlantic, but my mom emailed some scans of my piece to me today (sorry, it’s not online). So exciting! If you in the Golden Triangle area, pick up a copy to check it out — it’s a great magazine in general and I have been a subcriber since launch.

Candace Partridge in Catfish Alley

My non-Mississippi friends have asked me if they could read it, so I am going to be cheeky and post my text below. Hope the editor doesn’t get miffed!


I always thought that the longer that I spent in a foreign land, the more normal it would seem to me. Unfortunately, it hasn’t quite worked out that way, even after spending nearly 9 years in the UK, and despite the fact that I now hold a British passport in addition to my American one. It’s only recently that I have come to realise how much I retain my Mississippi roots, and how much of an influence growing up there has had on my character. It forms the benchmark by which I hold all things to be holy, namely good music, good weather, and good food.

I once got in an argument with someone who was running down Americans for being fat and lazy and not knowing good food from bad. I told him that I was from the fattest state of them all and quite proud of it. Why? Because the reason we are fat is because our food is so incredible that no one can stop eating it. There wasn’t much he could say to that.

He knew that nobody can argue with good barbeque. Very fortunately for me, there are actually a couple of good barbeque places in London where I can go to get a pulled pork sandwich. One of them even has the decency to have an ESPN satellite feed so you can watch SEC football games on Sunday night. Now that’s civilised.

I am just as prejudiced about the weather. I know everyone there does nothing but complain about it, too hot too cold too dry too wet, and yet what I miss most is the heat and summer thunderstorms. When I moved to London, I was woefully unprepared for the relentless greyness and darkness of the winters. They aren’t especially cold, just incredibly bleak and long. The summers aren’t any great consolation, either. I get weeks on end in summer where I feel like I absolutely need to wear shorts and flip flops…and to do so I have to fly south. Literally. To GTR. It’s a long way to go to warm up.

I think the problem for me is that nothing, not even 5000 miles, can erase the sacred geographies of our childhood hiding places. I wonder if living in this country so long has changed me, and maybe I embrace my Southern past more tightly to keep it from being erased. Yes, my voice is different and I have a strange hybrid transatlantic accent, but I’ll never stop saying “y’all”.

The strange thing is that the character of Britain is in many respects similar to the South. We all believe in good manners and being respectful of others. We believe in forbearing when faced with troubles, and we value good common decency. Growing up in Mississippi was strangely the best possible training for living in Britain, because I instinctively understand the manners and the unspoken rules. Southern women have a softness that makes it very easy for us to charm Britons, but we also have a hidden strength that means that we are indomitable when it comes to getting our way, just like many English women.

I am not sure how I am going to manage this division of my identity in the future: I feel displaced in the UK, but somewhat at home, and I feel at home in Mississippi, but somewhat displaced. But deep down, no matter how many passports I hold, the deepest one within is stamped Mississippi.

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Hell Yeah Oh No Hell Yeah

Karlie Kloss in UK Vogue May 2012

What with this weather and my exam hell, I would love nothing more than to take to bed in Suite 515 of the Hotel Crillon a la Karlie Kloss in the photo above. Silk jammies and everything. I can’t remember which suite I stayed in in the Crillon a couple of years ago but I would gladly return there for a spell of hibernation.

My exams start in less than two days. We shall not speak of it. So far this weekend I have not really studied, but after a foray to Ikea in the wilds of Croydon to get a new desk chair, I am now going to post this and then get down to bidness.

Hells Yeah:
* New office chair
* Louche luncheons at Bob Bob Ricard followed by some unmentionables shopping
* Ruth B on The Voice!
* London at night, brightly forlorn
* The Shard all lit up like giant xmas tree
* Shiny new secret toys
* The howling of the wind in the library, since at least this weather is good for studying
* Joe and the Juice, a fab addition to the London coffeeshop scene. They do fresh juices so I can get my healthy treats on the go, now!
* Waiting for a great new (cheap) dress to come in the post. Come on!
* My unexepectedly awesome DIY ring finger manicure and contrasting pedicure. Chanel Particuliere + China Glaze For Audrey Tiffany blue.
ring finger mani pedi

Oh Noes:
* Exams. I have five over the next three weeks.
* The weather: 40 days 40 nights of rain.
* Hostage situations! I was just a couple of blocks over and it was a bad scene. Not good for helping one to focus on studying when people nearby might be in life or death situations. It was worrying.

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